Virtuous Enterprise – Proverbs 31 Woman Interview Series

Hello friends, yes, I am posting on a Monday, it is a way to welcome you into the new year. I was recently studying the proverbs 31 woman and verse 16 jumped out to me so loudly.  Christians often focus on the housekeeping and character qualities that makes the proverbs 31 woman great, but we […]

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How to love yourself- a five step guide

We all know that person who hates their life. They hate the way they look, their job, their weight, their skin, their God. They want everything to change, but they never do anything about it. These people complain, and never loose sight of the storm, but the problem with focusing on the storm is that you’ll […]

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Female Circumcision and FGM. Is there a difference?

I recently heard a well educated Nigerian woman discuss her circumcision on TV. She explained that she was circumcised on the seventh day of her birth the same way the male children were. Upon further enquiry, she explained that circumcision was emphatically not the same thing as female genital mutilation. I was not sure about […]

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2016 A Blogging Year Reviewed

What a year it has been! Indeed what a year it has been. Before I realised what what’s happening, 2016 had reached its half way mark and I was asked by olatoxic to review my progress. You can read my half way review here if you missed it in July!

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Deal breakers : Why I can never Date you

I had a conversation with a friend a while back about deal breakers in relationships. According to her, everyone needed to have their deal breakers written down clearly with a plan not to deviate from them. We had been at an event, and she scanned the room searching for someone that would catch her eye. […]

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5 Moral Dilemmas you need to answer

Hello, friends, I recently had a conversation with some friends on moral dilemmas and how we all approach such situations differently. As a result, I have brought you 5 common moral dilemmas that we all need to consider and answer. Some of them may appear political, but most things are in the 21st Century. So it […]

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5 Things to do when you’re Making more Money than your Man

I recently heard that Linda Ikeji, Nigerian mega-blogger reportedly stated emphatically that she could not be with a man who was not successful. Several women proceeded to chastise her of the words expressed explaining that all men will attempt to stifle their wives. As a result, she was advised that her financial success was not […]

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Poem: Emi Mimo

I originally posted this poem a little over a year ago. A few days ago someone tagged me on Instagram sharing this and how much the words encouraged her. I was uplifted that my words could bring comfort to others and wanted to share it again. I hope you enjoy it; Emi Mimo is the term […]

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7 year old Murdered in Nigeria

I recently heard the heartbreaking story of a 7-year-old boy who was killed in Badagry, Nigeria a few days ago. This boy was reportedly caught stealing garri (milled cassava) or a phone and was placed in a car tyre, beat and set on fire. Passersby took photos and videos which went viral on the internet. […]

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How many boyfriends is too many?

I recently came across a video by ‘Battabox Nigeria’ where women in Lagos were asked how many boyfriends they had. The consensus was that most single women especially those in university had a minimum of two boyfriends at any given time. It appeared that many of these young women had a man for multiple life […]

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